Looking for some self date ideas?
There are so many benefits to alone time, especially when that time is spent thoughtfully and doing something you love. One way to make sure you’re scoring enough valuable me-time? Take yourself on dates! It’s an amazing concept, right?
Why You Should Take Yourself on Dates?
- You get to try something new.
- You get alone time to enjoy yourself and enjoy your own company.
- You can grow as an individual. Go outside your comfort zone, that’s where you grow the most!
- Going on a date with you means you are showing yourself, love. By choosing to take care of yourself, you are better able to take care of others.
- You can complete your bucket list!
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How to Plan a Solo Date
STEP 1: PICK SOMETHING OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE.
Chances are your first solo date will be uncomfortable. Choose an activity you think you’d enjoy, but make sure it’s slightly outside of your comfort zone. It takes guts to date yourself!
Step 2: COMMIT TO IT
You wouldn’t ghost a dinner date with anyone else, so don’t ghost yourself. Put your date on the calendar and commit yourself that you would show up for yourself.
Step 3: MAKE IT SPECIAL
Do whatever you need to do to feel great about yourself. Basically, treat it like you would a date with another person.
26 Self Date Ideas For You
Not sure what kind of date to take yourself on? Try these self date ideas!
1// Go for a spa day
A classic solo date night idea! Have you ever been to a spa? Check if you have any affordable, cozy spas near you and book a visit. There’s nothing more soothing than spending a relaxing day on your own.
If you feel like having a spa day is too expensive, you can even have your own spa day at home. Take a bubble bath, light up some candles, put on some music, a nourishing face mask, and unwind.
2// Go for a drive
Create a good playlist of your favorite songs and pick a destination you’ve always wanted to visit. It doesn’t have to be far. What matters is you’re having a nice date night with yourself.
3// Join a cooking class
If you’re someone who enjoys trying new foods and exploring the kitchen, sign yourself up for a cooking class.
Or have any other hobbies? Ever wanted to learn pottery? Or pasta making? Or polka?! Sign up for a class and learn a new, fun hobby.
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4// Go to a concert
I know we all need company at some places but if you can go to any concert alone. Enjoy the live music and dance your heart out.
5// Go to a coffee shop
Take yourself to a coffee shop or cafe, grab a drink and read a good book if you love books.Stay for as long as you can. Immerse yourself in your book and do some people-watching at the same time.(not in a creepy way though)
6// Explore your hometown
A great self date idea is to become a tourist in your own city. Spend the day exploring your city/country. There are multiple ways to do that. You can either ride around on a tour bus or just walk around the neighborhood.
7// Change your home decor
This can be really satisfying, especially if you do it right. Put on some music and get to work rearranging furniture, framing up some photos and sprucing up the room by painting your baseboards and trim.
8//Go to movies
If you haven’t done this before, don’t be shy about going to the movies alone. Okay, I am also shy about this, but I really wanna do this. Because there are so many perks, you don’t have to share the popcorn, you can watch whatever you like and sit in your favorite spot! Also a great break from your comfort zone.
9// Do an art date
Art date. Coloring, sketching, watercolors, finger-painting, knitting, whatever floats your boat. You forget how tranquil this type of stuff is until you do it. Get your art supplies, put on some good music, and have a fun artistic night!
10// Wine and dine
Who says you can’t make yourself a gorgeous dinner along with a glass of wine.
11// Book a night at a Hotel
Hit up a nearby hotel or Airbnb for a weekend alone. You can stay in, or you can use it as an excuse to explore the city.
12// Enjoy the sunset or sunrise
A great way to start or end your day on a very positive note is to watch sunset or sunrise. Isn’t it?
13// Take a day off from work
If it’s possible, take a day off from work and have this one day where you schedule absolutely nothing and do whatever you want. Put on some good movies and binge watch or do any of your hobbies!
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14// Do stargazing
On a clear night, go stargazing. The stars are so far away that they seem like tiny lights in the sky and you’ll want to reach out and touch them!
15//Do something adventurous
Sky diving? Hiking? Scuba diving? Bungee jumping? What do you like?
16// Bake Something
When you’re a novice, baking requires time and patience that we don’t always have. Surely you have time for this self date, get in the right frame of mind so you have the patience. You’re going to bake something delicious!
17//Gardening
Buy some cute plants and create a mini garden of your own.
18// Journal your thoughts and feelings.
Self-reflection is a really important part of personal growth. You can meditate, practice affirmations, or just journal. Sitting in silence and writing down your feelings helps to dramatically relieve your stress.
19// Write yourself a letter
Another great solo date idea is to write yourself a love letter.Show yourself some self-love by listing down everything you love about yourself. You can look back on this love letter on those days when you’re feeling down.
20// Visit museum or art gallery
This is the ideal day out for anyone looking to do something new for themselves.Find a museum or art gallery and take it all in on your own. You can take as much time as you need or move quickly.
21//Scrapbook your favorite memories
Scrapbooking is more than just sticking photos to the pages of a book. It’s a quiet opportunity to reflect on the joyful moments you’ve experienced recently and jot down your feelings for the future you to revel in. it can be a really fun and meaningful activity (AKA the perfect solo date idea)
22// Check out a local festival
Want some great fun alone time, there are so many festivals you can go to – art, music, culture and food. Explore some amazing festivals in your town or city!
23// Have a dance party in your living room
if your social battery is running low, swap out your next night out with friends for a solo date with you, your living room and your best music playlist. This solo date night is free and easy to do at home. Plus, you get to choose the playlist.
24//Get dressed up
If you always think getting ready is the best part of a night out, this self-date idea is for you. Who said you need plans with someone else to look good? Strutting around in your best dress just for you is a fun way to spend me-time and have a self date.
25//Buy yourself flowers
Why do you need anyone to buy you flowers when you can do it for yourself?
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26// Picnic
Take yourself on a picnic at a local park! You can either pack a small lunch beforehand or purchase some food at a nearby cafe or grocery store.
Are You Going To Start Dating Yourself?
As you can see there are a lot of fun things to do on your own. Dating yourself is certainly a great way to practice self-care.
The best way to show yourself, love, is by accepting and embracing your quirks, passions, and flaws because they make you unique! And once you have that self-love, it will radiate outwards and positively affect all aspects of your life! Taking yourself out on these self dates will only make that love stronger.
What are some self date ideas that you’ve enjoyed in the past? Share your story. We’d love to hear from you!
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